People like silicone toys for their smooth surface and because they are easy to wash. But silicone is also where lubricant mistakes happen most often: one base is safe for the toy, while another can damage its surface over time. Below we look at how to check this without guessing.

This continues our guide How to choose a lubricant: water-based, silicone or oil-based. Here we look at one practical task: what to choose when you already have a toy and need a lubricant for it.

In brief

  • For silicone toys, people usually choose a water-based lubricant.
  • A silicone lubricant can damage the surface of a silicone toy, so it is not combined with one unless the toy is covered with a condom.
  • The toy's material is stated on the product page and in the manufacturer's instructions: start there.

Short answer

If the toy is silicone, choose a water-based lubricant: it suits any toy and condom and washes off easily. A silicone lubricant is not chosen for a silicone toy, because over time it can spoil the surface.

Why silicone and silicone lubricant do not go together

A silicone lubricant can break down the surface of a silicone toy over time. That is why safety sources recommend a water-based lubricant for silicone toys, which suits any toy and condom.

Toy materials and lubricant

Toy material Water-based lubricant Silicone lubricant Keep in mind
Silicone (100%) Yes No, may damage the surface Easy to wash, does not absorb moisture
Silicone blends, TPE, TPR, jelly, PVC Yes Follow the manufacturer's instructions Porous: may hold dirt even after washing, so a condom is used
Glass, metal, hard plastic Yes Follow the manufacturer's instructions Not porous, easier to wash

How to check a toy's material

  1. Product page. The material is listed in the specifications: look for "silicone", "TPE", "glass", "metal".
  2. Pure silicone or a blend. If the description says only "silicone" or "silicone blend", ask a consultant: blends count as porous materials, while 100% silicone does not.
  3. Manufacturer's instructions. They are the final word: if they name a specific lubricant or rule out a certain base, follow them.
  4. Lubricant base. It is stated in the name or the ingredients. Silicone lubricants often list components such as dimethicone; in water-based ones, water (aqua) usually comes first in the list.

Anal toys: what to consider

Anal use needs more lubricant, because the anal area does not produce its own. People usually choose a thicker water-based lubricant and check that the base suits the toy's material. A toy that has been used anally is washed, or fitted with a new condom, before vaginal use.

Safety limits

Wash the toy with mild soap and water after every use and before anyone else uses it; for care of a specific toy, see its instructions. If you experience discomfort, irritation or any other problem, stop using the product and see a doctor. This article is for information only and does not replace medical advice.

Frequently asked questions

Can a silicone lubricant be used with a silicone toy?

Usually not: it can damage the toy's surface. If the toy is covered with a condom, the lubricant does not touch the material, but a water-based one is the safer choice.

Which lubricant suits TPE toys?

A water-based lubricant suits any toy. Porous materials, which include TPE, TPR, jelly and PVC, may hold dirt even after washing, so a condom is usually used with them.

Can oil-based products be used?

Oil-based products are not combined with latex condoms, and for most toys they are usually not recommended. They are used on their own for massage.

How can I tell a lubricant is water-based?

Check the name, description and ingredients on the product page: the base is stated there. In water-based products, water (aqua) usually comes first in the ingredients.

Do anal toys need a separate lubricant?

Not necessarily a separate one, but people usually choose a thicker formula and a larger amount. The base must suit the toy's material.

Where to go next

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